People have this serious misconception that a partner will change once they get married. After all marriage is a serious thing isn’t it? So if a person take a vow to love and cherish you it means that they will even if the person was cheating on you and betraying your trust prior to the marriage. No they might not change. It is wrong to assume that and if you marry a person their behavior will suddenly change. If you marry someone knowing that they are being unfaithful to you what motivation is there for them to change. If you accepted the behavior isn’t it telling the person that you are okay with it? Decide beforehand what you will or will not accept from a relationship. Don’t start a marriage on a rocky foundation where trust is an issue. A person who is not dedicated to ensuring your happiness will only bring you sorrow.
I want to trust you but my heart is so afraid,
You say you have changed,
But how can I be sure,
I want to believe you,
But I don’t want to have to re-live,
The heartache of the past.
Painful memories serves as a reminder,
Of the risks I have taken,
And the promises that have been broken.
I want to stay afloat,
Not suffocating in this love,
Drowning in my tears,
Knowing that your loyalty is not here.
What a Woman Wants From Her Man
What a woman often wants most from a relationship is to have a man who loves, respect, and appreciates her. She wants a man who makes her feel special; one who thinks about her feelings and not just his own.
A woman wants a man who will not lie to her or give her a reason to feel jealous. She needs to be able to trust him with her heart. She wants someone who is serious about her and their relationship and is willing to put in as much effort to make it work as she does. She wants a man who will commit to her and who will be there for her when she needs him.
Do not worry about what the FUTURE holds God has already had it planned. It is in His hands and we have no control over it. Enjoy this moment and put your trust in God.
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Thank you for the golden days’
When life is free from strain.
Thank you for the darker days
That have a thread of pain.
For all the pain you give to me
Makes me kneel in prayer
To You who made the universe
And know my every care.
I find that when I bend the knee,
It’s then my will bends too,
To Your great will that knows what’s best
And cares if dreams come true.
When my will is in tune with Yours,
My life becomes a song
That’s sung in two-part harmony
And angels sing along.
The Key of Choice