When I see what is going on around the country it makes me wonder how will all this play out in the end. Seeds of hate and division are sprouting all around us. We are becoming a nation divided… a nation where only people of a certain skin color are welcome. Ironically those who profess to be evangelicals seems to see nothing wrong with the hateful rhetorics and the seed of hate they are being sewed. They turn a blind eye. Safe in their religion they have forgotten that the Christ they profess to serve is one of love and acceptance. We must renounce hate and bigotry and come together as one nation.
Sleep Well Nelson Mandela. You have left an indelible mark in this world. You did not just exist, you were an inspiration. In the face of oppression and discrimination you stood resolute in your bid for equality. You had your freedom taken away because you dared to fight against apartheid. After twenty-seven years you emerged from those prison walls with your fighting spirit intact. You were beaten down but not broken. You didn’t just talk the talk you walked the walk. You had a game plan and you executed it well. We will remember you as one of the greatest and selfless man to ever walk the face of this earth. Your memory will forever live on. May your soul Rest In Peace.
There is a growing dangerous trend where people are getting hurt in what is known as ‘The Knockout Game’ It is spreading across the Sates and this criminal act is endangering the lives of people. The attackers are walking up to strangers and punch them just for fun. They punch the victim hard enough to knock him or her out.
There have been reports of these attacks in Brooklyn, Washington DC and New Jersey. Its been reported that a man in New Jersey had seizures and died after he was punched.
Hurting people is not a game and I hope those perpetrating these acts will come to their senses and stop this dangerous activity. Stop the madness before more people are seriously hurt.
The government shutdown has entered its second week with both parties failing to reach an agreement that will end the shutdown. It is sad that this has dragged on for so long. Obama Care is at the heart of the problem and the Republicans are prepared to continue with the shut down because of their opposition to this health care plan. At the end of the day there will be winners and losers. The question is who stand to lose the most? This is Obama’s second term in office; he will not seek re-election. The Republicans on the other hand will seek to head the next government. Will the voting public see their present course of actions justified and in the best interest of the country. Will they be able to convince the thousands of men and women who are at this moment unsure of their pay checks to vote for them.
There are thousands of people who presently have no form of health insurance and see Obama Care as their only hope of getting insured. Will the Republicans be able to convince these people that they acted in their best interest and get their votes? The Republicans need to be careful that come the next election their present actions do not come back to bite them in the ass.
- Poll: Republicans ‘Badly Damaged’ By Shutdown Battle (hrexach.wordpress.com)
When people migrate they leave their countries behind but often times they take their culture and traditions with them. They aggressively try to enforce their beliefs and continue to live by the traditions that they are accustomed to even it is not in keeping with what others would consider to be normal behavior.
The idea of Honor Killing is deeply embedded in certain societies and family honor is more important than life itself. In most instances there is a gross misrepresentation of the word ‘Honor’. Usually it is the woman in the family who has to sacrifice her happiness to uphold the family honor.
Let us look at the following scenario: A girl is forced to marry a man almost twice her age. He beats her, sexually abuse and tortures her. Yet if she leaves her abusive husband it will be looked upon as bringing disgrace on the family by people who are obsessed with maintaining family honor. She is therefore expected to live a life of misery and suffer silently because her family believes this is the honorable thing to do.
Families will go to the extreme to maintain their family honor. It is therefore not surprising that on October 20, 2009 Faleh Hassan Almaleki a native of Iraq living in Glendale Arizona mowed down his twenty year-old daughter Noor Almaleki in what was considered a honor attack. Noor died as a result of the injuries she sustained.
Her crime? Her father felt she had become “too westernized”; he was also angry that she had left the man she married in Iraq and returned to Arizona to live with her boyfriend and his mother. Faleh felt his daughter had brought disgrace on the family and took matters in his own hands. He became judge, jury and executioner. The punishment for her transgressions was death and he executed her punishment by running her over in his Jeep Cherokee. Her boyfriend’s mother also suffered injuries in the attack.
After the attack he fled the country, driving to Mexico and taking a plane to London. He was detained by British Police and extradited back to the US. In February 2011 a Phoenix jury found him guilty of second degree murder in the death of his daughter. He was also convicted of aggravated assault for injuries suffered by the mother of his daughter’s boyfriend in the 2009 attack.
For those who continue to practice this monstrous act I hope the day will come when they will realize that they are the one bringing disgrace on the family. In a normal society family member don’t go around killing each other. Even animals form packs to defend and protect their kind. There is nothing honorable about being a murderer! There is nothing honorable about taking the life of someone especially the people around you whom you should love and protect. It is the murderer in the family who should be seen as bringing disgrace on the family.
I look at her battered, bruised face,
And she quickly looks away,
“I fell,” she responded, to the unspoken question,
And yet she wouldn’t look my way.
Caught up in a situation of physical abuse
Why did she think she had to stay?
“Leave him,” I told her,
And she pretended not to understand.
“I fell,” she repeated,
Trying to convince me,
Trying to convince herself.
“You don’t deserve this,” I told her,
“He loves me,” she says.
“No,” I tell her,
“Love is not supposed to hurt.”
She nods her head as if agreeing with me,
And yet I wonder,
Does she really understand?
In the US between 1000-1600 women die each year as a result of domestic violence. It is time to take charge and make changes don’t allow yourself to become part of the statistic for 2013. Engage in health and fulfilling relationships. Learn to recognize signs of abuse and remove yourself before you get trapped in a life of physical abuse.
Women are often trapped in abusive relationships because they did not recognize or chose to ignore the warning signs. Since it is often difficult to get out of these relationships it is very important for you to be aware of the negative behavior of your partner and end the relationship before he gets too much control over your life.
One of the first thing an abuser will try to is to control you. He will try to make you abandon your family and friends for him. He needs to get the feeling that he is number one in your life; that he means more to you than anyone else. I recall a conversation I had with a friend of mine (who we shall call Sharon) very abusive boyfriend. Her family was upset about the way he was physically abusing her and was adamant that she should leave him. I remember him saying to me ”Sharon isn’t going to leave me, she loves me. She don’t care about her family. She will do anything I tell her to do so they are just wasting their time.” I recall him being very smug about it, so very sure of himself.
This is one of the first signs that you should learn to recognize. If your partner is trying to separate you from your family and friends, pay close attention and ask yourself, why is he doing this? It could be a situation of divide and conquer. He could be setting the stage for abuse and by controlling you and alienating you from those who care about you, when the abuse begins you will have no one to turn to for help. The first step therefore to not set yourself up for an abusive relationship is to make sure the relationship you have with your family and friends remain intact.
- 5 Early Warning Signs He’s Too Controlling (psychcentral.com)
- Saunders: Heed signs of potential abusers (newsobserver.com)