Many people let self doubt prevent them from utilizing their blessings. They put others on pedestals and hold them in high esteem without realizing their own self-worth. They feel they are not good enough, will never achieve as much and are okay to settle for mediocrity. Change this mindset now. You have potential within you, it is possible for you be whatever you set your mind to be. Find your passion, work at it and surround youself with positive people. More importantly believe in yourself and let go off self-doubt.Think highly of yourself and know that you are important
Be confident in who you are
Believe in yourself
Do not doubt your abilities
Keep a positive mindset
All these are necessary
For you to grow as an individual
If a man keeps walking out on you and keeps returning don’t be fooled. Don’t start thinking that he loves you and he can’t live without you so that’s the reason he keeps coming back.
First you must understand that what you have is a selfish individual who cares nothing about your happiness. The reason he keeps coming back is not because he loves you, it is because you make yourself available. Don’t be fooled.
The mistake many of us make is to expect someone to come into our lives and make us happy. The key to happiness is to realize that no owes us any obligation to make us happy. We must take control over our lives and do not rely too heavily on someone else for happiness. Often after a breakup people hold on to the hurt and pain of the failed relationship. Unhappiness becomes a way of life and there is no moving forward.
We have to understand that people will disappoint us, they will betray and hurt us. But we must refuse to let them take our joy. Promise yourself that you will choose happiness in spite of situations that are beyond your control. Trust God and know that he will not allow the person who cause you pain to live happily ever after while you live in misery.
Your mind is a powerful tool
and just like the body your mind needs food.
The thoughts that circulate
in your mind daily has the power
to either lift you up or pull you down.
It is therefore important for you
to fill your mind with positive thoughts.
Self love is important. In order for others to love you, you must first love yourself unconditionally. When you love yourself you set the stage for others to love you. You are also more likely to grasp the concept that you are deserving of love and you are less likely to allow others to treat you in a manner less than you deserve.
I want to trust you but my heart is so afraid,
You say you have changed,
But how can I be sure,
I want to believe you,
But I don’t want to have to re-live,
The heartache of the past.
Painful memories serves as a reminder,
Of the risks I have taken,
And the promises that have been broken.
I want to stay afloat,
Not suffocating in this love,
Drowning in my tears,
Knowing that your loyalty is not here.
If life makes you weary stop and take a rest. Smell the roses and enjoy the sunshine. It is pointless to wear yourself out and not enjoy the simple pleasures along the way on the journey of life.
There are many rivers to cross along this journey of life. The quickest starter is not always the one to finish first, so don’t feel like you are a failure if you are not there yet. There is a divine plan for everyone and there is a perfect timing.
Author Marva Seaton 
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