A few days ago I went to the movies with my daughters and sitting in the theater I found myself wondering… What if someone should come in shooting? Where could we run? Where could we hide? I was a little alarmed at having those thought because I don’t usually worry when I go to the movies. However with the frequency shootings are taking place, these are serious and well founded questions. We all have to have a plan on how we can try to survive if the unexpected happens.
Guns take lives. Guns create fear. The right of some to own guns should not impact on the rights of others to live.
You want to achieve success but if you keep doing the same things and keep getting the same results it is time to make changes. Some people fear change but often it is necessary to achieve success. So don’t be afraid of change embrace it.
Ladies looking out for yourself is very important as others may not always be there to protect you. The biggest weapon that leaves women trapped in relationships is FEAR. Now this FEAR does not come obout overnight. Overtime an abusive partner will groom you to FEAR him so it is important to recognize signs of intimidation however subtle. If you feel that he will hurt you even if he hasn’t laid a hand on you listen to your intuition and tread carefully. You cannot build a healthy relationship with someone that you are afraid of so if he tries to intimidate you walk away.
It is nice to know that someone loves you and that he may be a little jealous when other men focus too much attention on you. However when he is jealous to the point where he believes you are having a relationship with every man you talks to, it becomes a problem. A little jealousy in a relationship is normal but extreme jealousy is unhealthy. It also shows that your partner may find it difficult to trust anyone.
He is jealous of the relationship you have with your male co-workers or any male for that matter. He constantly accuses you of sleeping with other men and manufactures affairs where none exists. He checks your phone records to see who you talk to. He watches you every move and keep tabs on you because he needs to know exactly where you are throughout the day. His insane jealousy and constant accusations will in time cause you much unhappiness and drain you emotionally.
Extreme jealousy is a sign of insecurity and a jealous partner may get to the point where he refuses to let you out of his sight. He is suspicious when there is no reason for suspicion. A man may even physically abuse his woman because in his head she is cheating although technically she is not. Do not ignore signs of extreme jealousy in a partner. Jealousy can be a reason for murder to take place and many women have lost lives at the hands of jealous partners.
If your partner is extremely jealous it may be best to walk away from the relationship for your safety and peace of mind.
I walk with my head held high,
and I am not afraid to pursue my dreams,
overcome my challenges,
remove my obstacles,
I am not afraid of change.
For the past I have no regrets,
What’s done is done,
it was how it was meant to be.
To the future I look without fear,
for I know God will see me through.
He directs my path,
He shows me the way to go.
I can count on Him to lead and guide me,
in the pursuit of my dreams and final destiny