Tag: Relationships

Choose to be Happy

The mistake many of us make is to expect someone to come into our lives and make us happy. The key to happiness is to realize that no owes us any obligation to make us happy. We must take control over our lives and do not rely too  heavily on someone else for happiness. Often after a breakup people hold on to the hurt and pain of the failed relationship. Unhappiness becomes a way of life and there is no moving forward.

We have to understand that people will disappoint us, they will betray and hurt us. But we must refuse to let them take our joy. Promise yourself that you will choose happiness in spite of situations that are beyond your control. Trust God and know that he will not allow the person who cause you pain to live happily ever after while you live in misery.

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Indifference

The silence between them is profound
She yearns so much
 for a hug from him
 or just a gentle touch.
But he turns away and she feels frozen
 by the coldness he displays.
 Feelings of love unrequited
hits her like a mountain of waves.
She would do anything
 if this relationship she could save.

His phone rings, he answers it and smiles,
“I am going to meet Sam for a drink,” he says
But of course she knows he lies.
“I know about her,” she says.
He looks at her and there is no surprise in his eyes.

He offers no ostentatious words of denial,
Unperturbed by his betrayal,
 “Don’t wait up for me,” he says.
His words cut her like a knife,
Her heart is bleeding,
She feels like screaming,
But she is numbed by his indifference.
An apology, or even a denial,
Anything would have been better
than his cold indifference.

Actions V Words

There are good men out there but often women are intrigued by the wrong ones. These men often appear captivating but deep down they are not genuine. It is therefore important to pay closer attention to a man’s action rather than his words.

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There is nothing more Powerful…

There is nothing more powerful than a woman who knows her worth
and is determined not to accept less than she deserves.
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It is Important…

It is Important for every woman to understand herself, what she wants firm life and pursue her dream. Too often women stay trapped in bad relationship because they do not thunk they are good enough and deserve better.
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Relationships

Always remember that you are an individual, unique and whole. When you allow someone to share your life never allow that person to become your life. Because if that person should ever leave it will leave you broken almost beyond repair.

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Letting Go

At some point you have to let go of what is causing you pain. You were not meant to live life as a victim. Rise up, soar like an eagle and claim your happiness. Only you have control over your life.

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Don’t Hold on to Heartache

Don’t hold on to heartache
Don’t hold on to hurt
For seldom does a person
who hurt others find true
happiness

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Spend Your Time With Those…

Spend your time with those who love you unconditionally not with those who claim to love you only when it is convenient for them.

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Self Love

It is important for every woman to love herself. A woman who does not love herself often engages in negative thoughts about herself. Over time these negative thoughts serve to erode her self-confidence and self-esteem. She is more likely to accept abuse in relationships because she believes can’t do any better.

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