When you are feeling down and nothing seem to go right
don’t despair, hang in there. Where there is a will you will find a way.
It will all turn out right.
Motivational Quote
Happy Sunday
Hi Everyone. It’s been a while since I have posted anything. I am going back to school and it has been a hectic semester so far. I hope you are all doing well. For you who are here in the US don’t forget Tuesday is election day. Play your part in the decision making. Please go out and vote.
Happy Sunday to you all. I hope it will be a peaceful and relaxing one! Enjoy the roses!
Domestic Violence Awareness
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, stay informed and learn how to avoid abusive relationships. Read up on the signs which present themselves as visible red flags and do not ignore them. Do not make excuses for a partner’s behavior if your gut tells you something is not right. Stay focus and alert to signs of abuse. Prevention is the key.
Five Secrets to a Happy Life
- Accept yourself for who you are and love yourself. You must learn to look in the mirror and love what you see, the image of who you are. Loving yourself is the first step towards happiness.
- Make peace with your past. Forgive those who need to be forgiven. Cut ties with those who cares nothing about your happiness. Surround yourself with positive, uplifting people who motivate and inspire you.
- Do not harbor bitterness or resentment in your heart towards anyone because in the end it will stifle your inner growth and peace of mind.
- Be kind to yourself. Pamper yourself every once in a while. Do something that makes you happy and make it all about you, you deserve it.
- Learn to say no. Remember that you are not here to save the world, so do not take on more than you can handle because you might not want to displease someone. You are never going to be able to please everyone or be everything for everyone. You must be able to say no and feel no guilt about doing so
Empowering Women
REASONS NOT TO RETURN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
- Remember that it was the abusive behavior of your partner which caused you to leave in the first place. You were not happy in the relationship.
- He will continue to abuse you even if he promises you that he will never hit you again. The abuse will continue and it could get worse.
- Abusers seldom stop their abusive behavior unless they get some form of counseling or therapy. Don’t go back and expect him to change because he says he has changed. As soon as he gets comfortable with you being back he will start abusing you again.
- Abusers like to instill fear in their victims. He will try to make you so fearful of him that you are less likely to leave him.
- He may become more possessive and controlling and try t isolated you from your family and friends. He might start keeping tabs on you, watching you more closely for any sign that you might try to leave again.
- He will do everything within his power to make it impossible for you to leave again. He might even threaten to take your life.
- The most serious of all the reasons is that he may follow through on his threats. You may never get the chance to escape a second time with your life. Some abusers are prepared to take the lives of their victims and then their own. Don’t let this happen to you.
Once you get the chance to leave the relationship never return to an abusive partner no matter how persuasive he may be.
Don’t Stay Stuck in Unhappiness
Relationships take hard work, and in spite of your best efforts, it might not work out. Sometimes people grow apart or they take each other for granted and stop nurturing the relationship.
Not every couple like to admit to themselves or want to let others know that they cannot make it work, so they stay together even when they are both miserable.
There is no point in holding on if you are not happy. There is nothing you can gain from staying stuck in unhappiness. Sometimes when you have given it your best shot, and it is not working out, you have to let go. Walk away. It is better to be alone than to stay stuck in an unhappy relationship.
Domestic Violence Awareness
Help Spread Awareness
Despite efforts to to raise awareness about the ills of domestic violence, women continue to die. Only a few weeks ago I learned of the horrible death of a young woman. Her killer slit her throat, then set her body on fire. They reportedly took her husband and two other men into custody in connection with her death.
No human being should receive this kind of treatment. It is wrong; it is immoral, and a heinous crime against humanity. If a relationship is not working out people have choices, but the choice to take another human life should never be one of them. May this young woman’s family get the justice they deserve.
First Female Vice President
Historic Moment
Joe Biden’s pick of Kamala Harris as his running mate is no doubt historic, and an inspiration to women everywhere. In a male dominated world, this is the first time a woman has been chosen as a vice president. Women are just as capable of leading as men are. We wish her all the best.
Don’t be Afraid of Setbacks
In your quest for success, you may encounter failure. Do not allow it to deter you. Keep trying. You will get there!
The Secret of Success
Shift Your Focus
If you are intent on achieving success, do not focus on the ones who tried and fail. Instead try to learn from the ones who have already achieved success.
Author Marva Seaton 
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