Today let us remember the brave men and women who sacrificed their lives to keep us safe. There is no greater sacrifice than to lay down your life for your country. Much respect for our fallen heroes!
No one wants to be alone but it is better to be alone than to be with someone who do does not love, respect, or appreciate you and makes you feel as if you are not important. There is no joy in being in love and unhappy. Living a miserable life is not living at all.
As women we need to look out for, and support each other. Never contribute to the breakdown of another woman’s marriage. Never be part of the reason why someone else relationship didn’t work out. Respect another woman’s relationship in the same way you would want her to respect yours. Together we are stronger. #WomenUnited
Give me a world without hate and prejudice
Give me a world where respect for life,
Takes priority over everything else.
Give me a world where people are treated equally.
The sun does not shine on a selected few,
Nor does the rain fall only for some.
We all come into this world the same way
And when we depart we will all go six feet under.
While we share the same planet and breathe the same air
Let us be mindful of one another.
The very fact that you see yourself as a side chick means that you know that the man already has a wife or girlfriend. You are not his number one priority.
You are intruding on another woman’s relationship and may possibly be the home wrecker who disrupt her life and that her children. That is not cool.
You are the secret that his wife or girlfriend must never find out about. It is important for his secret to stay hidden.
If his wife or girlfriend finds out about you, you then becomes his mistake. His explanation to his wife or girlfriend…he made a mistake. You are that mistake.
Of course to save his relationship with the person who really matters he will say you meant nothing. So from being a secret, then a mistake you become nothing. Don’t be his nothing.
The bottom line is you need to respect yourself and respect the other woman’s relationship. If that is not enough remember Karma is a bitch and what you dish out you will get back in return.
We talk about women rights and we say that men should show more respect to women. However it is apparent that some women have no respect for themselves. Some feel there is nothing wrong with stripping or selling their bodies. They feel it is okay to do these things to make a living. Of course this type of behavior is nothing new; the difference is that in times past women engaged in these activities would keep it a secret from their friends and family. Now it is as if it is something to brag about.
The thing is that society is accepting and rewarding this kind of behavior and therefore women feel it is not something to be ashamed of anymore. Porn stars are becoming celebrities so what’s the big deal? But does this make it okay? Maybe given all the publicity young girls now think it is okay. There is s case of a young woman who came to this country to attend college. She started college but have dropped out and now she is working as a stripper. She keep posting about her newly found profession on face book. It is as if she has gotten a degree and she wants the world to know about it.
Recently there was a video by Justin Timberlake on YouTube. In this video called ‘Tunnel Vision’ there were girls performing in the nude. They were naked while he remained fully clothed throughout the video. The video was banned briefly from YouTube but is now back on it. I see no reason for nudity is this video but as long as women put themselves out there as commodities which can be bought these kind of things will continue to happen.
Women if you want to get respect it has to begin with you respecting yourselves. Stop allowing men to use you in this kind of degrading manner because of the end of the day they will consider you cheap and they will have no respect for you. You have the power to say I will take part in your video but I will not degrade myself and I will not strip. In Times Square on the fourth of July two women were seen in wearing nothing but body paint. Was this really necessary? There is a time and a place for everything. Women if you want men to respect you start respecting yourselves! You are not commodities; therefore do not give men the impression that you can be bought!