The fear of failure is real and this fear can have a negative and crippling effect on your life if you let it. The important thing to know is that failure is not something to be ashamed of. Some of the most successful people experienced many failure before they finally achieved success. Success is not a sprint and it won’t happen overnight and you may experience failures but keep trying.
Encouraging someone else’s dream in no way mean that you won’t see the fulfillment of your own dreams. Sometimes people are reluctant to impart information to others for the fear that they might rise above them. However seeing someone else succeed can serve as a motivation for it tells you that yes success is possible. In all of this there is one valuable life lesson to learn and that is no matter where you are in life there may come when you will need someone to lean. Each one helping the other helps to build good relationships that can be of great benefit in the long run.
One of the most important quality to have is self-confidence. It is a tool necessary for success. Often we could achieve great things if only we had enough confidence to take the first step. Having self-confidence doesn’t mean that you will always get it right but confidence gives you the courage to try again until you get it right.
Do you believe that if you truly love someone it means that you will love them no matter what? Now I know people have mixed views about what true love entails however one must be quick to understand that a healthy relationship involves two people having mutual love and respect for one another. It should never be a one-sided thing so don’t fall for that trap where a partner hurts you and then tell you that if you truly love you would forgive him. How about him loving you enough not to hurt you in the first place?
The belief that true love last forever and it is worth fighting for is one of the reason why women remain in abusive relationship hoping that the more love they show the abusive partner, the more likely it is that he will change. This is a belief that often leads to disappointment for no amount of love that you show him will make him change. He has to feel that deep love inside for you and respect you enough not to hurt you. They change that you seek can only come from him. You can’t make him change and you should never settle for abuse. It is okay not to love your abuser. It is okay to walk away.
Life is not always fair. Things will not always go the way we expect them to. People will not always be there and we will experience disappointments along the journey. However we must always aim to attain the best for our lives and find the strength to rise above the things that were meant to hold us back.
We are living in modern times where we do not expect certain things to happen but today as we speak we have millions of women and girls who have been forced into the sex slave industry. At present it is one of the fastest growing industry globally. Young girls are at risk, vulnerable young women are at risk.
I urge women to talk to their teenage daughters about the threat of sex slavery. Young women I want you to be aware that you need to be careful about those with whom you associate because it could be that very person who befriend you who is paving the way for you to become a sex slave. Knowledge is key so be aware that the evil of sex slavery is on the rise.