One of the biggest problems in relationship is that we usually do not have a clear understanding of what we want in a partner or define clearly our expectations. Many people are so smitten by physical appearance that they pay little attention to the person’s character. The end result is that we often find out too late that all that glistens is not gold and that looks can be deceiving. So before you make the biggest mistake of your life get to know as much as possible about the character of the person you are about to become involved with. Never assume that because the person is physically attractive he or she is a perfect match for you.