Some people rely heavily on others for their happiness. They invest a lot into their relationships and sometimes put themselves in a position where they become vulnerable. Some people entire life revolve around their partners, they make them the center of their universe; they love them more than life itself. This is a rather unhealthy and sometimes dangerous situation for when a relationship goes sour, these are the people who have difficulty coping. Some even contemplate suicide at the prospect of having to live without their partner if a relationship ends.
It is good and healthy to love someone, however it is very important for you to love yourself also. Never rely on someone else to see to your happiness because you may be setting yourself up for disappointment. Don’t allow yourself to get so wrapped up in someone else that life becomes meaningless without them. Don’t ever contemplate taking your life because the man or woman you are with decides they don’t want to be with you anymore, because the only loser will be you. When you end your life they will continue to live theirs. Their life is not going to end just because you are no longer around!
Broken relationships can result in a lot of heartache and pain but it wont last forever. When one door closes another one opens. Keep a positive mind and who knows someone better will come along. Life is precious so try and live it to the fullest.
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