Tag: The Other Woman

Blaming the Other Woman

Isn’t it rather interesting to note that in a lot of situations where the relationship breaks down because the man cheats the wife or girlfriend is quick to point fingers and blame the other woman.

Here are five things to consider before you start blaming the other woman.

No.1 Cheating is not an accident or a mistake. It is a choice; it is a decision that someone makes.

No.2. Cheating is a selfish act which a man commits without any thought of how his actions will affect his partner.

No.3 The other woman cannot wreck your happy home unless your man allows her to.

No.4. The other woman has no commitment to you. She is not responsible for making sure that you don’t hurt emotionally.

No.5. It takes two to make any idea of cheating possible, so don’t just blame the other woman because the man is at fault too.

The Other Woman

Couple outside Temple of Somnathpur - Near Mysore - India

Isn’t it wonderful when a couple makes time for each other?  A healthy relationship can flourish when both the man and the woman stay faithful to each other but sometimes it does not work out the way you anticipate.  When a woman says her  relationship is complicated in  many instances  another woman is in the picture.

It is bad enough when your man is cheating, but what is even worse is when the other woman try to imply that it is your fault why he is cheating.  She often does not see herself as doing anything wrong, at least not until you let her have him and he starts cheating on her with someone else.  She gets angry and upset and it does not occur to her that she was once that woman. It does not sink in that  she was once the other woman.