Home » Relationships » Blaming the Other Woman

Blaming the Other Woman

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 1,445 other followers

Follow me on Twitter



Isn’t it rather interesting to note that in a lot of situations where the relationship breaks down because the man cheats the wife or girlfriend is quick to point fingers and blame the other woman.

Here are five things to consider before you start blaming the other woman.

No.1 Cheating is not an accident or a mistake. It is a choice; it is a decision that someone makes.

No.2. Cheating is a selfish act which a man commits without any thought of how his actions will affect his partner.

No.3 The other woman cannot wreck your happy home unless your man allows her to.

No.4. The other woman has no commitment to you. She is not responsible for making sure that you don’t hurt emotionally.

No.5. It takes two to make any idea of cheating possible, so don’t just blame the other woman because the man is at fault too.



  1. It is so easy to blame the one we don’t have feelings for, i.e. the other woman. I have been cheated on and I hated the other woman with a passion, though I knew it wasn’t her fault. I think I hated her because I didn’t understand what she had that I lacked and that drove me bonkers. I did however place the appropriate blame on the guy I was with, the relationship ended.


Leave a Reply

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Poetry Book

Ghosts of His Past

Follow EMPOWERING WOMEN on WordPress.com

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 1,445 other followers

Blogs I Follow


New content every Sunday

silver girl sailing

and when it ended it seemed the echo would never stop


A Few Words & Songs From My Mind & Heart

Ardor's Garden

~Where heart and humor are harvested~

The Ozblog

An assortment of quotes, poetry, lyrics and stories from myself and others.

Empowering Women

Online support for women as they navigate life's curveballs

The Mindless Mom

For all of the "not-so-perfect" moms who hope they aren't alone in this beautiful mess called MOTHERHOOD.


Just another happy camper🌻

Soul Searching

Psychology. Counselling. Mental Health. Inspiration!


Passions For Books, Writing and Music-however it manifests itself

Call Me Mars

A record of the misadventures of Mars: fashions, opinions, reviews, experiences, photographs and the like.

Live life lightly

One mom's ideas

%d bloggers like this: