PARENTING

Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.

 

 

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Parenting

Children  Understanding the Importance of Getting a Good Education

Getting a good education is very important in today’s world.  It has helped many individual to rise above a life of poverty by being able to get good jobs they would otherwise not have been able  to get.   Unemployment is at a high.   Breaking into the job market is getting more and more difficult.  Therefore deciding on a career and getting qualified in that area of choice is very important.

While parents should help their children in making the right career choice but the final decision should be theirs.  Do not try to live your dreams through your children by pushing for them to make a career choice that you yourself had wanted but was not able to accomplish.  Remember they will have to live with the choice they make.   So encourage them to choose a career where they will be happy and comfortable with.   If they choose to do something you do not personally like you can state your opinion but at the same time give them whatever support they need.

Encourage your children not to settle for mediocre, but instead strive to be the best that they can be.   Everyone has potential and the sky is the limit.  Let them understand that nothing good in life comes easy but with hard work and dedication they can achieve and surpass their goals in life.