Thinking of success but now working towards success will get you no where. It is like trying to drive a car without gas in the tank. You have to put in effort in order to get results.

 

Relationships

Don’t Stay Stuck in Unhappiness

Relationships take hard work and not every one will work out. Sometimes people grow apart or take each other for granted and stop nurturing the relationship.

Not every couple like to admit to themselves or want to let others know that they are unable to make it work, so they stay together even when they are both miserable.

There is no point in holding on if you are not happy. There is nothing to be gained from staying stuck in unhappiness. Sometimes when you have given it your best shot and it is not working out you have to let go and walk away. It is better to be alone than to stay stuck in an unhappy relationship.

The rape of women is viewed almost as a normal part of life by some, so much so that perpetrators will go as far as to record the act.

Just a week ago in Chicago six male most of them teenagers gang raped a fifteen year old girl. Not only did they violate  this girl but they livestream it on Facebook. What is also disturbing is that 40 persons reportedly watched the rape taking place and none of them reported it.

Is this where we are as a society? Is this kind of behavior now the new norm that people would watch a crime like this been committed and see no need to report it.

This also raises another question. How are we raising our children? What kind of values are been instilled in them. We need to work towards having a society where men and boys understand that rape is wrong.

In many instances  women experience disappointments in relationships. It sometimes come about when trust is broken and loyalty melts away like butter in the heat of the sun.

Commitment these days is rare so invest wisely in your relationship. Give it your all but keep your soul intact. Be that strong woman who will bend but not break should adversity come.

If your relationship is going well don’t go looking for trouble. Do not go making accusations when there are no basis for them. Do not let jealousy rule you, it can destroy what you have. Remember that if a man truly loves you, he will stay by your side no matter what. He will be there for you and you will know his love is real by the way he treats you.

Relationships

Your happiness is not dependent on someone else so never tell yourself that it is better to be in an abusive relationship rather than to be alone. It is better to be alone and feel happy than to be in a relationship that makes you feel miserable.

Relationships

Stand up for Yourself

No matter how much you love a man do not allow yourself to become a door mat and let him walk all over you. You have to maintain your individuality and your self-respect. If he cannot respect you trust me you don’t need him in your life. Don’t fool yourself into thinking that it will be okay, you are not going to find happiness with someone who does not respect you.