Isn’t it rather interesting to note that in a lot of situations where the relationship breaks down because the man cheats the wife or girlfriend is quick to point fingers and blame the other woman.
Here are five things to consider before you start blaming the other woman.
No.1 Cheating is not an accident or a mistake. It is a choice; it is a decision that someone makes.
No.2. Cheating is a selfish act which a man commits without any thought of how his actions will affect his partner.
No.3 The other woman cannot wreck your happy home unless your man allows her to.
No.4. The other woman has no commitment to you. She is not responsible for making sure that you don’t hurt emotionally.
No.5. It takes two to make any idea of cheating possible, so don’t just blame the other woman because the man is at fault too.
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It is so easy to blame the one we don’t have feelings for, i.e. the other woman. I have been cheated on and I hated the other woman with a passion, though I knew it wasn’t her fault. I think I hated her because I didn’t understand what she had that I lacked and that drove me bonkers. I did however place the appropriate blame on the guy I was with, the relationship ended.
You are correct, it is easy to hate the third party in the relationship and a part of the reason is that you know things will never be the same again.