Life has taught me never to make assumptions about people because appearance is not always what it appears to be. People may appear to be confident and have it all together yet fight daily battles that no one knows about. And often people who appear strong are seldon asked how they are doing . People simply assume that person is doing great yet that person might be the one who have struggles and put on a brave face to get through it. No matter what appearances seem it never hurts to ask, hiw are you? Are you doing ok? Sometimes all somone need is someone who will listen and understand.