The youthful years are gifts from God use them wisely. Do not be like the five foolish virgins who had no oil in their lamps and were caught unprepared.
Some young people live life with no thought of tomorrow and are unprepared for life’s realities. It is all good and well to have fun but you need to know who is going to have your back when the fun is over.
A young man will bounce from woman to woman living the life of a player, forming no roots because he doesn’t understand that nothing lasts forever. It is not about how many women you can sleep with but about finding a woman who is going to be there for the long ride and have your back no matter what. When you find such a woman treat her like the queen she is because the day will come when you can’t play those games. The good looks won’t last forever neither will the sex appeal. In fact the day might come when the only thing you can raise is your hand to put food to your mouth. So don’t go on living careless. Let your life take root.
Young woman don’t buy into the hype that you are beautiful and sexy and can have any man so there is no need for you to settle down. You live to be the life of the party. You want to be the one men lust after. Enjoy the ride while you can because it won’t last forever. Before you know it everything start heading south, old age start creeping in and you are left wondering where did all the years go because for the future you didn’t plan.
So young men and women while you are young and having fun remember that the youthful years are a gift from God and you must use them wisely.
In many instances women experience disappointments in relationships. It sometimes come about when trust is broken and loyalty melts away like butter in the heat of the sun.
Commitment these days is rare so invest wisely in your relationship. Give it your all but keep your soul intact. Be that strong woman who will bend but not break should adversity come.
If your relationship is going well don’t go looking for trouble. Do not go making accusations when there are no basis for them. Do not let jealousy rule you, it can destroy what you have. Remember that if a man truly loves you, he will stay by your side no matter what. He will be there for you and you will know his love is real by the way he treats you.
The time has come for us as women to realize our worth and take responsibility for our lives. We must embrace change when we see that path that we are taking only leads to pain. We must liberate ourselves and become the masters of our own happiness. No one is going to do it for us, we have to do that for ourselves. Happiness is not a privilege, it is our birthright and we must never place it in the hands of those who have no understanding that their role is to add and not take away a woman’s happiness.
Happy International Women’s Day to women all across the world. We are powerful, we are strong, we are unique, we are proud women.
Do not be disheartened remember that as long as there is life there is hope for a brighter and better tomorrow.
We must go on no matter what life throws our way. Giving up is not an option. Though the road may be rough and the going gets tough we must go on. Sometimes it may seem that we are fighting a losing battle but even then we must not give up the fight. We may fall but we must refuse to stay down. As long as there is breath left in our bodies we must persevere and fight on until the battle is won.